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“A tender – and rather wonderful – documentary about love, family and the complexities of identity” ★★★★ The Guardian

One trans man’s pioneering quest to fulfil an age-old desire: to start his own family. The is the story of the dad who gave birth.

Freddy is 30 and yearns to start a family but for him this ordinary desire comes with unique challenges. He is a gay transgender man. Deciding to carry his own baby took years of soul searching, but nothing could prepare him for the reality of pregnancy, as both a physical experience and one that challenges society’s fundamental understanding of gender, parenthood and family. He quickly realises that what to him feels pragmatic, to others feels deeply confusing and confronting; this was not part of his plan. Against a backdrop of increasing hostility towards trans people the world over, Freddy is forced to confront his own naivety, mine unknown depths of courage and lean on every friend and family member who will stand by him. Made with unprecedented access and collaboration over three years, the film follows Freddy from preparing to conceive right through to birth. It is an intimate, audacious and lyrical story for the cinema about conception, pregnancy, birth and what makes us who we are.

“A sensitive and finely-tuned portrayal that challenges traditional notions of fatherhood and masculinity” INDIEWIRE



Director: Jeanie Finlay

Country: UK

Running Time: 1hr 36min

Year: 2019

Cert: 15

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